It sounds like the player that was the target of Incognito's conduct has kept the texts and voice mail(s).  If the stuff being reported is true, Incognito's football career could be over.

"Multiple sources confirmed to ESPN that the following is a transcript of a voice message Incognito left for Martin in April 2013, a year after Martin was drafted:

"Hey, wassup, you half n----- piece of s---. I saw you on Twitter, you been training 10 weeks. [I want to] s--- in your f---ing mouth. [I'm going to] slap your f---ing mouth. [I'm going to] slap your real mother across the face [laughter]. F--- you, you're still a rookie. I'll kill you."

Sources tell ESPN NFL Insider Adam Schefter that officials from both the NFL and the Dolphins have heard the tape and have copies of the message.

Sources familiar with the tapes say these are terms Incognito used over time and were not isolated incidents, including the use of the racial epithet multiple times.

Sources also say Martin received a series of texts that include derogatory terms referring to the female anatomy and sexual orientation."

http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/9926139/richie-incognito-miami-dolphins-used-slurs-messages-jonathan-martin

I am just glad the oak allowed 7 td passes.  Finally a waiver wire move that worked. 

This bullying stuff, really, they are grown men.  Wyy dont they act like it?

This situation isn't going to end well for Martin.  To a man, it appears the Dolphins players are standing behind Incognito.

Sorry, I'm even going to disagree with the independent report. I was a football player (kinda, I was the kicker). I've been in that locker room. I've seen kids kill themselves trying to make a team, and kill themselves trying to win. I've seen them make plays, get amped, bounce around, look for more. I've seen them cry when they were carried off the field hurt. Not because of injury, because they couldn't keep playing, and it was a big game...

Unless you've been in a hockey or football locker room, padding up with contact athletes who are putting it on the line out there in a big way, you don't understand the "alpha male" mentality. The rules are different there, just like Basic Military training. Name me another job where you get screamed at and fucked with for the first three months of your employment, at ALL times... It's a different job, requiring different skills, and it cannot be held to the same standard of an office administrator.

Fors, you may still be into the NFL, but I gotta tell you man, this shit lost me 2 years back. I follow on Yahoo headlines a little bit to see who's playing well... Try to watch the super bowl, find I don't really care mostly... It started with excessive contact calls to the QB, seriously restructuring pass defense, dicking with the kickoff because players get hurt on returns.... Celebrate? Fined. Do anything different with the uniform? Fined. Question anything? Fined. Touch the QB's helmet? Fined.

I'm sorry guys, I grew up watching Lott and Atwater. Singletary, Offerdahl, Long, Taylor.... Legends
like Tatum... "If you don't want me to kill your receiver, don't throw to my f---ing side of the field..."

This is just becoming a sport of complete pussies (can we say pussies now? I can't call them most other names because those are banned by a politically correct society that's hell bent and determined to fuck up anything fun in life...). Listening to a 325 lb NFL OFFENSIVE LINEMAN cry about bullying is a lot like listening to Danica Patrick bitch about how her Lamborghini Gallardo just isn't functional enough.... WTF?!?!?! You're playing fucking football you little lip quivering bitch, go hit someone... wtf....

Now... If I said that at my job? Sure, I'm outcast. But I have yet to have to throw myself in front of a 300 lb demon in order to prevent my coworker for getting murdered by him. That's just not my job. If it was, I'd understand that physicality, strength, and warrior mentality are what is required, and anything that doesn't kill me makes me stronger. I'd also ask for 5 million a season.

Good luck with whatever you do in life Martin, but I can almost fucking guarantee you'll never be on an NFL football field again. Miami wasn't that far out of the normal for football treatment. Sure there's some hazing, sure they are vulgar and nasty, and if you're a banker, that's shocking. But these guys aren't bankers. They bleed together every weekend, and aren't really expected to cry like toddlers everytime their diaper fills...
 

I read the story about the report, but I read the texts that went back and forth from Martin to Incognito, and I saw NOTHING that looked like Incognito hated him, treated him badly, etc. I bust my FRIENDS balls almost as bad.... Frequently enter a room with a friend, and say, "What's up hooker? You have a dick in your mouth today, or are your kids going to starve?"

Now.... That being said, I realize this is a very very crazy way to convey love for your fellow man. That same dude had surgery yesterday, and I called him to see if he was okay and needed anything... That's the pro's and con's of being a male friend of mine.. I will make fun of you at any possible opportunity, but if you need something, I got you.

I saw a lot of that in the text transcript... To your above point, the end result of this is going to be the NFL trying to cater to this element of humanity, and I don't believe that anyone this socially inept needs to be concerning themselves with an NFL career any more than they need to be a spokesman for a global company... It's just not a business built for people who are shy and unable to communicate. Course I'm the jackass that will say giving a firefighter job to a woman who can't carry 200 pounds down a ladder simply because she's a woman (and you have to hire a woman) is a dumb move... I refuse to let go of common sense while being as objective as I can about people and all their variety.